dating updates!

Well, my dating life is certainly picking up, I'm happy to say. It's been a fairly slow, odd year for dating. I slept with a boy on the Train Cruise (lulz) and then I had a threesome with a guy and a girl from OKCupid. Definitely not the normal par for the course. Lately, I've been keeping it a bit tamer. I've had two awesome dates and I'm happy that all seems to be going well.

I'm still seeing The Activist. We had our third date on Sunday and it was pretty awesome. I was extremely tired from Bachelorette Weekend and he was just getting off of work, but we decided to go grab drinks at a bar near our apartments. We talked about domestic violence and our families (no relation... two completely separate topics) and then he asked if I was weird about PDA because he couldn't remember. I told him I was a little shy, so I wouldn't initiate it, but okay. Which is a lie - PDA makes me so uncomfortable unless I'm blind drunk. He was basically like, "I'm sitting here next to you and I really just want to kiss you." I was expecting like one kiss, but he wanted to make out, which I was not okay with, so I made him stop and we kept talking. Finally, he was like "I can't sit here without touching you, so we have to leave and go back to my place." I asked him if he wanted to finish his drink and he said, "I don't even care about that anymore" hahaha. So we went back to his place and totally got it on. The sex was AMAZING. Earth-shatteringly amazing. He's so not selfish at all and just really affectionate and physical and I adored every moment of it. I had planned to go home but was having so much fun that I just decided to spend the night, which he was more than happy to have me do.

We did have a discussion and he's not looking for anything serious, and I am not looking for anything serious with him, so we're going to keep seeing each other but keep it casual. Which allows me to date other people, so I went on a date last night. I liked him. He's my usual - well, an engineer. He's Italian, though, so not my standard Jewish engineer. He talks more than I do. It's insane. I love it. I never meet anyone who talks more than I do. He asks questions, though, and loves traveling and food and is super smart. I like it.

We'll see how this all progresses!