date #2

With my Hawaiian vacation and all of the random things that are floating in my brain, I realized that I never updated on status with The Activist. We had to move our date to tomorrow, but I'm happy because that gave me today to be crazy productive before LE's Bachelorette on Friday.  I think we're just going to hang out in his neighborhood - I've charged him with the planning of the date and me with the paying for it. Hopefully we'll go back to his place... To be honest, I really just want to get high (he has a medical marijuana card), talk about the universe, and have sex. Sounds like the perfect pre-vacay date. God, I really did go to Brown, didn't I?

Anyway, for date #2 we met at 10pm (this is what I get for dating 25 year olds) at the bar where The Cajun dumped me. I'm over Cajun, so I wanted to reclaim my love for that particular spot. He got there first, ordered me a drink and set up a tab, which was major brownie points. Boys who pay for dates = amazing. We found a quiet corner upstairs and just talked. I really like chatting with him. He's such a good listener and he remembers things and we talk about real shit. I like that it's not sugarcoated or the usual bullshit, but we talk about our beliefs and our dreams and what's wrong with the world. It was hard to be affectionate based on the seating arrangement, but when I get to talking, I don't even think about sex anymore.

After like 4 drinks, I had to call it a night. He offered to walk me home, so I let him. We got to my apartment and he asked me if he could kiss me again. I find it so cute that he asks me that every time. I told him yes and we started making out outside of my apartment. I hate PDA so I invited him upstairs. I didn't want to be awkward, so I just left the lights off when we sat in my den and we started hooking up. My period (and the fact that I'm a motherfucking lady this month) meant no sex. He was cool with it, though, and didn't mind doing other things. Love that hippie dudes are not afraid of blood in the slightest lol. So no sex, but lots of touching, making out, etc. I kicked him out around 1am. He left his watch at my place, so I figured that was a good sign that he wants to come back.

All in all, I like him and we have fun together. I don't know if it's major love potential, but he's so interesting and intriguing and I never say that about men. He's not my usual type in any way - Vest made a snarky comment about him being smaller than most of the guys I date - but I think that's a good thing. So on with more dates!